Living Gently

Living Gently with the self, with each other and with the earth.
 
 
STARFIRE  
The real beauty of being a woman.

 This is the information that your mothers could have used and
your daughters have a right to know.

The Real Beauty of Being a woman is having deep within access to the inner plains of being, emotional and mental balancing systems and the capacity to call all manner of mojo up and out of the belly.

Are you the unbridled, self-knowing, unfolding jewel of the feminine you can be?

Are you whole? Free? Clear in your belly about which is you and which is the world?

Are you going there and coming back each and every bleed, building and growing your life to reflect the deep shades of red moon wisdom that bubble to the surface as you are still, open and free?

Tis Time Sisters...

On a planet that is drowning in illusion and the manufactured emotion of plastic values, women can change the tide by standing tall in all that is soft but strong, like water, offering that which is of real value, to truly live... gently, with the self, with each other and with the earth.

 
Since 1995 I have placed together the tools and practice that have enabled me to “bleed well”, consciously engaging and enjoying the rhythmic cycle of my bodies relationship with inner and outer worlds. My inner strength is formidable, my sense of self is solid to the core, my sexuality unleashed, my energy understood thus surfed like the waves of the ocean.  If you or the women in your world are plagued by menstrual disorder/discomfort or you spend a good $20 a month plugging yourself up and/or medicating yourself down, I have to tell you there is SO much more available. This is the information that your mothers could have used, and your daughters have a right to know. I offer an opinion, no greater or lesser than your own, but an opinion that could change the way you wear your skin, and turn a curse into a blessing.    


The following are just some of the areas that the weekend or 8 week course explores. The whole journey is one of exploration and discovery. The format allows for many moments of sharing, as well as lots of information delivered in such as way as to truly ‘know’ your body’s potential.  

  • Mythology of women and menstruation.
  • The purpose and experience of Bleeding.
  • Tools of balance for the emotional and mental realms.
  • How your Bleeding effects your Birthing experience.
  • Menstrual Yoga.
  • Menstrual Suppression?
  • Moon Phases & women’s cycles.
  • Menstrual Meditation.
  • Sisterhood.
  • Undercurrent fears that are maintained by industry.
  • A moment to re-experience Menarche.
  • PMS and emotional expression.
  • Ancient & Present day Menstrual Art.
  • Menstrual Jewellery Design. Women’s Blood rites & traditions.
Through words, art, movement, contemplation and general sharing we as a group of women will travel to a land where most don’t get to discuss. Rarely in our culture is there room to explore the purpose of menstruation, the history or the deep experience that is possible. Each woman will receive a copy of my Menstrual Meditation CD called Temple of the Blood, as well as a booklet that covers all that we explore.


Sharing this journey with women that you may or may not know (invite your friends) over the 8 weeks will assist in creating the deep habit of making space for oneself.  As a woman, your inner landscapes needs to become important to you first, then this can be shared with the world effectively. 
 
 
In  2011  there will be a number of opportunities to be apart of this incredible experience. 
 
There are currently two options for StarFire:

OPTION ONE:  


 24th and 25th September 2011. 

10am to 5pm each day. 
  
To be held at the Pixie Collectives' 
Sacred Tree Healing Centre.
374 High St. Northcote 3070. 

Cost: $220 full $180 conc.

Included: Menstrual Meditation CD and Full 40+ page Booklet that will cover all areas.

Maximum 13 women so book quickly!

BOOKINGS: via Katherine Cunningham.

livinggently@gmail.com or 0409 953 518

Deposit of $100 to secure your place, balance due upon registration on the day if needed, but preferred the week prior.



OPTION TWO:  
If you have 5 or more women in your world, and would like to host a StarFire in your lounge room, mostly anywhere in Victoria,   please email me and we can see what we can work out. 


Email livinggently@gmail.com to book now. Places limited. 
 

 
 THE ONE-ON-ONE OPTION... check out how to access this work in a one on one basis, as there are many opportunities to learn to bleed well.
 

 
 
 
Here is some feedback from women that have taken the journey to a life lived in harmony with their menstrual cycle:
 
The starfire workshop helps women face deep issues of self; these touch on include and encompass, the emotional physical intellectual and spiritual aspects of being a female human being. 
It helped me understand the shame i felt about being born female; it helped me to accept and realize the feminine power that i sensed in other women but always lacked in myself. It educated me on the sacredness of my menstruation, new ways of honoring my cycle and my menstrual process and finding a new respect for the mood changes that follow the moon and my cycle throughout the month. As well as teaching me new physical and environmental ways of taking care of my blood, and bleeding well.
 
The starfire workshop also helped me deal with the more intense feelings of pain, and taught me a different way to think about the pain of being female. As well as teaching me methods of dealing with conflict of evil / bad Vs good / saintly of male Vs feminine, by using meditation dance and music. 
 
I feel fortunate to have stumbled onto the starfire workshop and i believe it should be taught to girls and women everywhere. I think the knowledge is relevant, priceless, necessary and imperative to a woman's growth.
 
Pixie, Owner of Tender and Raw, personal training.
 
My cycles have long been a mystery. Irregular periods, overwhelming Dark Moon phases and a lack of fertility education led me to enquire more about what it is my body tries to communicate through its physical, emotional and psychological expressions. And I wanted evidence - authentic, tangible experiences of re-aquainting myself with my body wisdom, with Mother Earth and with the Collective Feminine Consciousness. Katherine Cunningham is clearly passionate about sharing this enquiry with Womban. Her StarFire program is designed to demystify conditioned misunderstandings about what it means to be a fertile, creative, sensual, sexual, wild, intelligent Womban. For too long had I struggled on my own through horrific, depressing Dark Moons and irregular bleeds. Taking the pill, skipping my period and wearing the stamp of Irrational PMS was far from the natural way to be riding my cycles. My womb felt stressed and I felt ashamed about my emotions. Bleeding became a space of self-destruction.
 
Through the sharing of ancient wisdom, Katherine gently invited me into her own Red Tent, telling me stories, sharing amulets, guiding me through meditation and yoga, encouraging creativity, never judging and always pausing to listen to my fears, questions and secrets. Her extensive knowledge of Womban's Mysteries continues to inspire me. In gaining her trust, I commenced the Natural Fertility Course with my partner and through charting my cycles can see my body's intelligence as a guide for natural contraception. 
 
Katherine plays a huge role in supporting me as I re-learn how to trust myself.
Due to the emotional nature of a Womban's cycle, it is helpful to have tangible anchors as we navigate the sensory waters. While Katherine is always on call, I know I am equipped after every session with more ways to support myself and self-lovingly give myself the permission to be vulnerable with my partner and my sisters. As a result, my intuition about my needs has heightened. I can see the gifts of creativity, psychic awareness and healing that my cycle brings. I bond with the moon on a more primal level and I can identify my body's phases on a daily basis.
 
A Womban's body is her temple and her blood is a source of transformation. As I continue to learn from Katherine I grow excited about the prospects of sharing this wisdom with my own daughters, for it is sacred knowledge, forgotten and denied, and as Womban it is our responsibility to keep our Wombanly arts alive.
 
Charlotte, Artist.
 
 
 
Starfire! To imagine whole generations of women with such a depth of appreciation for their cycle and equipped with such tools as Starfire bestows, is for me to picture an awakened, embodied world of women! Since my Starfire experience, my cycle has been more regular than I have ever known. Having been diagnosed with PCOS 10yrs ago, regularity has rarely been a word I associate with my cycle. I have really given myself permission to take time when bleeding to listen to my body and fulfill it's needs- resting, learning, creating, releasing.... The experience of meeting weekly with a group of women was so nurturing, helping me to connect to a very raw, essential part of my feminine self. The tools I gained continue to enable me to connect every day to my womb, teaching me to live from this space with honour and wonder. Essentially, I am more than ever aware of my blood and cycle as being a profound personal teacher, an endless well of wisdom and a great friend!
 
Grace Natakhan, Dr of Chinese medicine.